Fear of women is common in many men, and believe me, no guy will say it in the open. This fear is based on the strong and deep believe that when approaching a woman, she will drop you and embarrass you instantly. The problem is that by repeating the mental picture of being rejected by a girl over and over again, the fear settles down inside your chest, and seems impossible to get rid of it.

This Anxiety is the result of having one rejection in the past, and the believe that it will happen again. The repetition of this thought, creates the incorrect conclusion that the next time you approach a girl, rejection will happen again. The problem is that if you are afraid to approach a girl, your legs will shake, your palms will sweat cold, and your mouth will get so dry, that you will only be able to stutter in front of her. Not very attractive, not very masculine, not very appealing, and not your best strategy to get a date.

You have to picture yourself in your mind, being accepted by the girl you meet, you have to imagine HER asking YOU for a drink. You have to create this situation and this image very clear in your mind.

Find in your memory a time, when a girl was interested in you, if it’s hard to find it in your memory or your past, then imagine it happening, imagine the situation of a woman being happy and enjoying talking with you . Explore in your imagination how it feels when a woman is interested in talking with you, be near you, how it feels when a woman flirts with you, and wants to have you.

When you do this, the emotion of self-confidence and assurance in yourself will fill you up. Once you have this feeling with you, I want you to imagine you are approaching a girl in the cold. In your mind, you will crate a situation where you are accepted by this girl with a smile.

This mental picture, will help next time you REALLY approach a woman. You will realize that it was not as hard as before, or actually it was so easy, you can't believe why you didn't try it before more often. If this doesn't work (it should work if you have the serious desire to change it), call a NLP practitioner, and they will fix this for you in only one session or two. That's how effective they are, and how easy it is to free yourself from this erroneous believe.

Rejection is part of the game; it's part of life. If you are playing your cards right, and the girl you were trying to pick up says "no", the best strategy is: EXIT, AND NEXT.