There is a charm, and seductive attraction that some guys have, they also have all the girls. This magnet is called charisma, and it's very important if you want to attract women to your life.

You are going to create an air of charisma around you. You will do this by using your imagination first. See yourself attractive, sexy, and powerful inside. Act with refinement and class. If it's difficult for you to do this, do not give up. You have to feel relaxed and comfortable when you inject in your mind all this positive information. Eventually, you will notice this attitude present in your behavior.

The more you practice acting confident and charismatic, the more you become a confident, seductive and an appealing man.

You will have a manner of importance in your behavior; your charisma will form this area around you of confidence, energy and class. You will be able to attract people to you, to magnetize and draw women, and bring new opportunities and relationships into your life.

Successful salespeople, entertainers, public speakers, and politicians have these personal skills, which makes them more persuasive.

Also, you will be able to handle a conversation much better. When talking to women, don't forget to look interested in what she says, and don't only look like you are listening, but listen carefully, I'll tell you why and how in the next chapter. Your girl will think that she just found a very interesting man to talk with, and probably you didn't talk much.

Women are unhappy in relationships because they are always asking for the impossible. The want the tall, dark, handsome, romantic and sensitive guy they see in the movie. But he ONLY exists in the movie.

It's not easy for men to be sensitive and romantic, we just didn't grow up to be that way. There is a guy out there making lots of money pushing his seminars, books, and workshops; with the silly title of "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". Basically women are ruled mostly by emotion, and we men do not have much of them. Therefore, you have to be more expressive and show some emotion and interest when talking to women, they like that, even if you don't.

You have 2 tools to give you an edge in your goal:

1.- You have a self-confident personality.

2.- You'll present yourself as a sensible guy with good charisma.

Do not put masculinity to the side, my advice is to add a sensitive side to your presentation, show that you can understand and talk her language. Women generally see their world from an emotional point of view, some more than others; I explain this point better in the next chapter, under "Talking with a kinesthetic girl".

So, ask questions you wouldn't ask your male friends; ask if the college course she is taking feels right to her. Ask her if the house she just moved in feels like the right decision for her.

Very important: "Never, never forget to smile and be fun".