There is a primitive, natural, and subconscious attraction between females and males. Women by instinct have an attraction to the opposite sex.

The problem with us guys, is that all of us do not have the tall, dark, handsome, big shoulders and hair on the chest looks; which are the characteristics that lures women in a primal way.

So what we are going to work on, is the virile attitude of the male. This is self-confidence, a manly behavior that women look for in men. Again, in a subconscious way, women believe a confident male can provide, protect, reproduce, and endure for a long time. When you display self-confidence, she will pick up all these attributes on you.

Women assimilate this message in a subliminal way. When you present yourself with confidence, and reveal a masculine image, you are sending a message directly to the instinct that women have to find a partner. Without self-confidence, it's impossible to project this image. Imagine a man standing with tight shoulders, hands in his pockets, looking down to the floor, not being able to keep his head up, or look straight in the eye. Sorry, that is not sexy, neither attractive.

Women will evaluate men in a different way we do rate women. Believe it or not, If you have an average look, but have a self-confident poise and behavior; most women will rate you much higher than the good looking guy standing right next to you.

You have to display a confident appearance, this confidence will show in your body position, breathing, facial expression, in your talk and tone of voice. You will use this self-confidence to light up your charisma. Understand this, better than good looks, CHARISMA will be your best tool to pick up girls easily, and best of all, pick them up without much effort.